i went on a first date on saturday night. it was probably one of the best dates i’ve been on. the conversation was so easy, we got along really well and we spent 6 hours together. and then this morning, he told me that he doesn't think it would be a good idea for us to hang out again because he's not in the right mental headspace right now.
and that will always make me feel a little bitter. i feel like it happens to me far too often that men pursue me and then turn around and use the "i'm not ready" excuse. you pursued me. to be completely honest, i didn't want to go on that date and i almost didn't show up. but i did and i had so much fun and then suddenly he's "not ready".
one of my favorite quotes is "stop disturbing women you're not ready for". i am so so tired of being disturbed by men who don't know what they want.
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